Friday, October 02, 2009

Chef Jeff: Seared Scallops







Searing scallops. Take two.
I tried to dry the scallops before cooking as much as possible. Any suggestions? I used paper towels to absorb the moisture about three times each.
Unlike the last time I seared scallops where I didn't put enough salt or seasoning, this time, I put a lot of salt this time.
The scallops absorb the salt like crazy so be liberal in salting. I also put a lot of pepper to season and give it flavor. The scallops are pretty thick so they needed a lot to give enough taste to all of the meat.
On to cooking... I used some butter and cilantro to give some smell and texture to give it that extra kick.

I'm very happy with the overall result. Perfect sear with balanced seasoning.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

RestoReview: Mission Hill Terrace Restaurant

The Mission Hill Terrace Restaurant is located on the Mission Hill Family Estate Winery in Westbank in the Okanagan. The Mission Hill Winery itself is a marvelous example of modern architecture, the Terrace restaurant (I'm not sure what the actual name is), is a natural complement to the winery itself. Terrace seating overlooking wonderful greenery and the waves of the Okanagan.







A view of the entire restaurant. The tables line the 2 rows of pillars on both sides of the terrace hall.




Winery-Made Dips & Roasted Olives (red lentil hummus, chèvre herb cream) - The bread was served with 2 different types of breads, baguette style slices and thin crunchy bread chips. I preferred the crispy snaps as they gave a more interesting texture to pair with the hummus and the goat's milk cheese. Both were strong, but not overly pungent. Enough to give you a taste but leave you wanting for more. The olives was a nice counter balance to the thick and creamy dips.







Queen Charlotte Halibut, Olive Oil Sorbet (spot prawn ceviche, sea beans & squash) - This is seafood served straight and simple. The halibut was cooked perfectly, not too dry. The olive oil sorbet was certainly interesting. I'm not sure how else to describe that. The prawns for the ceviche were tender and crisp. The greens gave a good balance to the seafood and the cream sauce.



Kurobuta Pork Belly, Seared Diver Scallop (white bean purée, fennel & apricot) - The scallop is absolute bliss. Seared to perfection with a slight caramelized glaze on the outside and tender on the inside. Kurobuta pork was tender as expected, and goes well with the white bean puree. I had higher expectations for this though, it still doesn't compare to the Kurobuta from The House (in San Francisco).



Jack’s Sooke Ruby Trout, Tarragon Cornbread (green tomato chutney, garden herb purée) - This is awesome! I've never had trout prepared like this. The green puree and green tomato chutney were an amazing choice to give a light flavor to the saltiness of the trout.



Another order of the Kurobuta Pork



Roasted Duck Breast, Crispy Confit Raviolo (almond bok choy, cinnamon jus) - I love everything about this dish. The duck was soft and tender and tasted terrific with the cinnamon jus. The Ravioli was a surprise since I thought it would overpower the duck, but it was a light vegetable filling. Hmmm... the whole dish tasted like the color you see, it tasted orange. (That totally doesn't make sense).



The Dessert Menu



A cup of their coffee with biscotti.



Vanilla Bean Chèvre Cheesecake (hazelnut crisp, caramelized blackberry) - Omgomgomg! This was absolutely fantastico! The goat's milk cheese just makes an absolutely incredible cheesecake. Soft and melting, it gives a strong flavor and a totally unique version of the classic cheesecake. The blackberry coulis, and the green one (I'm not sure what that is), but it tastes magnificent with the cake. MUST TRY!



I am absolutely blown away with this place. Beautiful scenery and absolutely amazing cuisine. The one regret is that I wasn't able to taste more of the menu because I'm sure they would taste as stellar as everything else.

Jeff recommends this. 5 stars++!
Mission Hill Winery Terrace Restaurant
Link to June Menu

Service & Setting: 5/5
Taste: 5/5
Cost Level: 4.5

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Purge Update: Day 35

My new bookcase is up. This is the first time I've actually had a fully "functioning" bookcase. It looks very sleek and sexy too.
Hmm... I'm very behind now in my cleanup. One computer is gone/donated to a friend, and I have just yet to throw out the other one. I am also excited about bringing in my new mac. It should have been here on Friday but I wasn't here to pick it up. I should have it y tomorrow... and yes it should have been by in that last sentence.... my b button is breaking! D:

Friday, June 26, 2009

Jeffrey's top 50 things to-do list

In no particular order
1) learn to fly a plane
2) go surfing
3) go fencing/swordfighting/kendo
4) evasive driving lessons
5) play at the world series of poker main event
6) go snowboarding (26 feb 2009)


aaaaand second time on (13 mar 2009)

7) go sailing
8) go fire a rifle
9) role/extra on a film or tv show
10) see/climb the pyramids of Egypt
11) go to Italy and see the Colisseum/take a ride on a gondola
12) visit every continent (4/7) - Africa, Antarctica, Asia, Australia, Europe, North America, South America
13) climb an active volcano
14) watch kickboxing at Lumpini Stadium in Kuala Lumpur
15) fly in a fighter jet
16) be a spy
17) learn how to paint
18) write a good song
19) learn how to ballroom dance
20) go to hawaii
21) visit the great wall of china (30 dec 2008)


22) visit thailand
23) visit vietnam
24) ride a jetski
25) get published/printed
26) go parasailing
27) visit the galapagos islands
28) go back to China and eat snake/starfish/grasshopper/larvae
29) learn to speak Japanese
30) learn to speak Mandarin fluently
31) learn to speak German/Russian/Spanish
32) play the theremin
33) eat Fugu
34) attend a TED conference
35) rappel
36) rappel face-first
37) go scuba diving
38) try bjj
39) try archery (04 dec 2009)

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Some snaps from Stanley Park and downtown

I went for a hike yesterday around the sea wall. 10km walk. puff puff. I was feeling okay after the end of it, considering I haven't done any major walking/hiking in a while. My legs were aching a little, but nothing too major, and it's mostly gone now. It was a fun walk. I need to go down there more often.
It was a perfect day. Sunshine and a temperature of 22 degrees. I was a little afraid I was going to get sunburnt or suffer a heatstroke, but I survived exposure in the sunshine =)

Oh yeah! I saw a seal in the water right near the entrance to Stanley Park, near where some kayakers were practicing. I didn't get a good shot of it though. :(














RestoReview: Zakkushi on Denman

Zakkushi on Denman is a Japanese izakaya that the restaurant dubs as a "Charcoal Grill Diner". They do indeed use a charcoal grill and makes for a very flavorful experience. We were lucky to be able to be seated as we came in early around 6pm. However, since most of the space was already reserved, we got stuck in the worse corner in the restaurant, at the bar right in front of the entrance. The restaurant has a very simple design. Clean, but not much space. The grilling is done in the open right by the bar and you can even sit right in front and watch your order cooked to perfection. Zakkushi is among many of the increasingly popular Japanese izakayas in the Denman food corridor in downtown Vancouver.






Ebi Mayo(Deep-fried Prawn Skewers w/ Chili Mayonnaise Sauce) - First up, the classic Ebi Mayo. This is standard fare for an izakaya and if they can't prepare this properly, then there is something wrong with the restaurant. Thankfully, the Ebi Mayo here is delicious!




Kushi Set(5 Selected Skewers! Momo, Ninnuku Memaki, Shiso Maki, Gyu-harami, P toro) - Next up was an assortment of Zakkushi's grills. You normally order the grills a la carte, but they provide this as an introduction dish. A breakdown: Momo (Chicken Thigh), Ninnuku Memaki(Garlic Stubs Wrapped w/ Sliced Pork), Shiso Maki(Chicken Thigh Wrapped w/ Shiso Leaf), Gyu-harami (Beef w/ Japanese Radish & Ponzu Sauce), P toro (Pork). They were all pretty tasty except for the Momo. Definitely a must try dish for those who don't know what they want to order.




Dotekon(Boiled Daikon radish on Pan-fried Beef teriyaki) - This was off of Zakkushi's "Special Menu". An interesting dish. The broth was a little too rich for me, but the texture of the daikon had a fresh taste mixed in with the beef.




Beef Steak(Beef Sirloin Steak w/ Daikon Radish Garlic Chips) - I am unimpressed by this dish. If I wanted a hunk of steak, I would have gone to a steakhouse. This dish was a little over-charred on the outside and provided no distinct flavor. It's just steak, with some chips. No originality. The quality of the beef was good though.




Kawa(Deep fried Chicken Skin) - This was probably an unhealthy dish to order, but it's crunchy chicken skin! Yum.




Ebi(Deep fried Sweet Prawn w/ Herb Salt) - I did not like this dish at all. The ebi was not crunchy enough. It was a little mushy inside, and the contrast of the sweet prawn with the salt was too strong.




Uzura Maki(Quail Eggs Wrapped w/ Sliced Pork) - I love this dish, but that's also because I love quail eggs. The eggs give a unique contrast to the pork wrapped around it which tasted more (and probably was) like bacon than pork.




Oropon Tsukune(Chicken Meat Balls w/ Japanese Radish & Ponzu Sauce) - This was an excellent dish. Grilled Chicken Meat with the simple flavors of radish and ponzu. Light and tasty!




Dorayaki Ice Cream(Sweet Japanese Red Beans in Sponge Cake Served w/ Ice Cream) - This dish is AWESOME! The red bean cake is very light and pairs well with the vanilla ice cream sprinkled with matcha powder. I was actually confused at first. I thought it was Matcha ice cream, but realized it was just the sprinkles. It tasted like a light matcha ice cream. Definitely a MUST try!




I'm looking forward to trying the other Zakkushi locations, on 4th and the new branch on Main.
Zakkushi on Denman
823 Denman Street, Vancouver, B.C.

Service & Setting: 4/5
Taste: 4/5
Cost Level: 3

Thursday, June 11, 2009

Purge Update: Day 18

Pushed a lot of my old clothes out. It's either going to donation or gifted to people who can still fit in them. I still have a lot of clothing from when I was younger that I've never even seen or worn. I did find a nice blue t-shirt for dad.

Tossing out a bunch of baseball cards. Donruss 91, and Topps 91 cards. Really nice condition, but I don't have the time to go look for collectors. Got rid of some Hockey card stickers that you stick into sticker books.

Purge Update: Day 17

I have found some of my old journals. I am reading through some of the entries and though the memories are not bad, the feelings they stir up make me weep inside. These entries are dated Nov 1998.
One entry that brought up emotions of regret was an encounter with an old classmate a few years from the last time I saw them. I really have to think of how different I would be had I not moved, or at least not transferred schools. In some ways, I think that move broke me as a person.

-I was also pretty geeky writing about my current status of video games I was playing. I was playing through Wild Arms(PSX) at the time, and also distressed because my CD-ROM was broken and couldn't play Starcraft (which I think was brand new at the time).

-I was contemplating entering the Incentive program... I took the steps to get in, and once I did, I was mocked by some of them.

-Wow... I was still part of the Maverick Hunters group on AOL at this point.

-A girl I used to know (and who I had a crush on)... our families aren't as close anymore, and I think that was the last time I saw her. (Actually, I think I saw her again at UBC, but I couldn't remember who she was)

-I was really into SchoolReach... I have old scores listed against Cambie

-Ah table tennis. I was so terrible then. That was one of the worst things I could have done. Join a sport that I was terrible at.

Dec 1998
-Watched Enemy Of The State (has it really been that long? that was a good movie)

I have some weird dreams and in some of them I actually remember a name (But have no idea who they are)
-some type of relationship with a Sharon Riviera

-Golfing at Mayfair with Kenny, scored a 74 on 9 holes(wow, terrible)

-Starcraft 3on3 versus Kelly's classmates: our team Kelly(Demolition Squad), Haley(Tumulus), and I (EnforcersEliteX) vs his classmate Justin (TheAzzKicker), (Comy), (@Protoss), and (Terminix-Man). We played 3on4 and still won on BGH

-one of the TAs at Palmer told me she wasn't coming back next year b/c she was moving. (weird)

-seems like I was really pissed. I created the WAS Webring, (War Against Sigma, I think, which was a Mega Man website webring). The assistant I assigned took my admin status and took credit for the webring and all of my hard work along with it. There are mentions of revenge, his name, and stabbing. (LOL!)

-I was watching Reboot and Shadow Raiders. (Those shows are sooo ancient now but were good for their time)

-Excited about the release of Starcraft: Brood War

-commented on the invasion of Iraq (Dec 16, 98). Operation Desert Fox was a deployment for Iraq's lack of cooperation with UNSCOM/ UN Weapons Inspectors

-playing Mario Kart 64. Whoo!


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Okay, I just realized how much there actually is in this journal and am going to stop.
I'm trying to figure whether or not to toss it out.

Friday, June 05, 2009

Purge Update: Day 11

I have been slowing down in the past few days. I have gone through my toss pile and now weeding through the items I want to keep and trying to organize how to minimize the space the stuff I... ahem, I don't want to say keep, but rather things I would rather not toss out... Books, some class notes and projects.

A few nights ago, I was in the hospital with some physical issues. I'm hoping first of all, that I'm okay, and after that I hope it goes in line with my re-organization and allows me to re-focus on my overall socio-engineering plan. Let me explain a little bit more of the plan. I will come up with a cooler name and acronym later.
1) Mind+Clarity. First step is obviously the re-organization of my room. The symbolization of the purge will be a strong factor in removing elements from my old identity and most of the excess baggage I have kept for the past few years. Allowing me to shift positions of furniture in my room and just change the overall feel will allow me to clear my visual space and optimize the layout for better feng shui. (Reverse profile: clean out my room and pay attention to the new layout, add personality to room)
2) Physical. I've gone on a little break for the past few weeks but I will re-double my efforts in exercising. I will continue on with badminton and hopefully expand into something new. I am looking towards trying a martial art. I am still researching my options for this. (Reverse profile: move)
3) Social. I went into this a little bit. Still trying to break the shell. Inhibitions are being shoved into oblivion, but hopefully I still keep myself in check and not go overboard. Hear me speak? Then it's an improvement. Hear me tell a joke? You've seen true progress. (Reverse profile: TALK MORE)
4) Expression. I need to speak my mind. I need to express people how I feel. I am a thoughtful person and I will help when I can. I am trying to change how I dress. I am getting rid of a lot of my clothes that I feel that no longer represents what I wish to be. (Reverse profile: Graphology- write bigger, change my wardrobe)
5) Aggression+Speed. I am calm. Too calm. I tend to be still and be a rock to the environment around me. I hesitate. Decisions I make tend to be over thought and take too long.
I need to shift this more towards Sun Tzu's teachings of water. Still and calm when peaceful. But when it moves, to be swift and powerful. Slowly and surely it moves mountains. I have to learn to rely on my instincts, decide, and follow through and not be afraid of making mistakes or regretting decisions. Measure twice, cut once, cut deep, cut fast.(Reverse profile: decide. now.)

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Purge Update: Day 7

I have not gotten much movement in the past few days, but I have been throwing out a lot.
I have decided on getting rid of my other old computer table as well. Since I am going for a fresh start, I might as well toss everything old out. My bed is fully dismantled and discarded so that is complete, most of the work now is getting all my old junk in storage bins out or stored in proper places.

I have good fortune doing this while my sister and her family is here. I threw out a lot of backpacks and most of them have been gifted and well appreciated by my nephew and niece. I gave a Monkey backpack to Elle, and a shoe "bag" (the bag itself is in the shape and design of a shoe) for Eisner. I also tossed in a Cathay Pacific backpack for Elle since it's her birthday today.
The nicest prize I gave up was probably a "My First Sony" CFM-2000. It is a bright red radio that looks like it was made for the 80s. (Google it, it looks pretty cool!).

Going through the self-help table at Chapters today, I saw a book called Clutter Busting: Letting Go Of What's Holding You Back . The irony was, I want to clean up my clutter, and I could not justify buying this book because it would only end up in my clutter. Haha.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Purge Day 4: Interesting Relics and Discoveries

1) A still wrapped Christmas present of a lego toy. I think I would have been ecstatic if I had actually seen it 12 years ago when I received it.
2) A Captain Planet ring. (For those of you who know what they are, I got the one with the Earth symbol)
3) Brochures from my trip to Europe. I forgot I visited Arromanches in Normandy, France. The museum described how the operations of D-Day took place.
4) My tickets from taking the lift at the Eiffel Tower, or as they say, les ascenseurs.
5) Reading some of my old book reports. My writing was more erratic back then, but I also wrote a lot bigger. (Graphology reverse profiling/engineering is also being considered).
6) Realizing how many notebooks I've actually started using but never finished. The count is pretty high, it's probably over 20. I'm considering how to combine them or whether to toss them out.
7) Bag of lightbulbs in my closet. ???
8) A lot of kid backpacks (I'm giving them to my nephew and niece as gifts--boy, do I have a lot of gifts for them)
9) Street hockey equipment I have never used. (I really wanted to play hockey when I was young, my parents ruined that dream for me)
10) An inspirational poem in my old poetry collections:

Dreams by Langston Hughes

Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

An auto-socioengineering project

I've been quite unhappy for the past few years. I'm not known to be a cheerful person, but I am optimistic. I look at my room and do a profile of myself based on my surroundings. I have mostly empty walls. There's not much color in the room. I do not have that many pictures. What there is, is a lot of plastic storage boxes. There's a lot of books shelved away and also lying around in the bins, and there's a lot of electronics/technology magazines. There are lots of documents and papers in random areas. There are also a lot of notebooks in many places. Hanging on the wall is a piano certification but it is pretty low level. In the other corner by the door, there's a simple moonscape painting. The room is mostly defined by the clutter and the small bed. There is no personality to the room, no intention, no memory.

I have done a couple of re-arrangements to my room, but nothing major since at least over 5 years ago, probably when I was still in high school. I am planning to do a reverse profile. You can see the personality of a person based on their room, so I am going to try and do the opposite. Modifying my environment to influence my personality. This is not that simple considering how much I have in my room, and how I personally have a tendency to leave things half done.
This change towards my health, lifestyle, and personality has probably been headed in the right direction only since last year. I have started exercising more by playing badminton. I have lost about 20lbs(10% of my weight) since I started last May and am hoping I can keep going. I have tried to break out of my social shell, but I still find myself shy and short of words some time, still having issues expressing myself. Trying to be more outward and friendly has truly been the hardest thing for me, but it has immensely helped me feel more confident.
The major barrier I have now is fear of what direction I'm headed in. My room still resounds like a bad nightmare and I have decided to take that as my first priority to change. I have started the purge since the 25th of May, a day before my birthday. I needed to start it before because I need to achieve change before the next year of my life is already passing by.

Today is purge day 3, and I am still moving forward.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

My list of dream jobs

These are the jobs, though maybe not as careers, that I conceive of as MY dream job, or A dream job I would at least like to experience. Some of these are ridiculous, some may not be too far to achieve, but all of them intrigue me.

1) Cup/Mug/Drinkware Designer for Starbucks
2) Drive the Google Maps Street View Truck
3) Work on Mythbusters
4) Be a food critic/host on FoodTV (and travel around the world doing it!)

Sunday, May 03, 2009

A crisis of conscience

I've pondered the question many times. If someone were in trouble, and if I was in a position to help, would I do it? After many hypotheticals and deep contemplation, I always ended up tabling a response. Too many factors come into play. The situation is generic, but many different micro-situations surrounding it are unpredictable.
Questions come up like, if I helped the person, would I put more people at risk? What is the risk to me? What is the possibility that my help actually does any good, after all, to quote George Bernard Shaw, "the road to hell is paved with good intentions".

Well, today was the first time I was tested on whether or not what choice I would make.
I was driving down Buswell Street today in Richmond heading north towards Saba Road. There was an old person opening his car on the other side of the street. There was a younger person beside/behind him no more than 30 years old. Suddenly, the younger guy swung a white plastic bag at the older man. The bag broke and cans and other things spewed onto the pavement.
At this point, I was just passing them. I looked into my side view mirrors and then I saw the younger guy looking down and punching him from above.

I contemplated about pulling over and coming out to help. I was driving the car with my mom and my nephew in the back, and decided against it.
I feel bad because I could have gone down to help him. I saw him take the first blow and I was literally only a couple feet away when it happened.
I always thought I was the kind of person who would stop to help, but my mind decided that on the factors at hand, I shouldn't.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Customer Experience

I recently went into the Apple store to get a battery changed since it was starting to bulge out. (I forgot to take a picture. It's gone now, so it's too late) I was actually surprised that they do have an actual concierge that deals with reservations, and not just a virtual concierge to deal with bookings. Apple stores are so fancy that they're like hotels. Haha!

When I arrived at the Apple store, the salesperson, Dan, I think was his name, at the front took one look at my problem and set me up through the concierge system since I didn't have an appointment. I didn't realize I was supposed to make a reservation before I came in through Apple's concierge system. To my delight, it wasn't too busy and I got snuck in and pushed my priority up. I sat around for about a minute when the "Apple Genius", Chris, took a look at the battery and then zoomed off. A few minutes later, he plugged in a new battery for me into my Macbook Pro. He shook my hand and off I went.
This has been one of those rare customer service (repair) experiences that have been painless. Usually it takes a couple of days, and in some cases, a few weeks before I was able to get back into my standard workflow.
Props to Apple and their Apple Geniuses at the stores.

In contrast, I have had really bad and sometimes contrasting experiences at other stores. On visiting the Harry Rosen store at Oakridge Mall, I have been scolded at before from salespeople to not touch merchandise. Can they truly be serious? I mean, I'm not going around the clothing racks and like knocking everything around. They sell jackets and clothing. People NEED to touch clothing before they buy it. I assume the salesperson that time was pre-judging me by how I dressed. Harry Rosen sells expensive high-end clothing, but outright scolding customers is bad business everywhere.
I do have a contrasting story to that though. I went again recently to that same store. When I was going through looking at jackets, and doing a "touch-and-go" which I do with most things. He made a, what I assume a joke, about how there's a promotion today about how everything that's touched is bought on the spot. I wasn't sure what he was trying to pull. Trying to get me off the merchandise or trying to break the ice. I laughed and moved on.
I was about to leave the store when I decided to take a look around the other side of the store. The same salesperson approached me and my friend and then decided to make a recommendation for me. I liked the jacket he suggested. A dark brown Italian waterproof coat. He didn't sneer at me like the previous salesperson though I don't doubt the other salespeople in the store would have done just that.
I was impressed by that one salesman. People are not given good enough customer service normally, but in those cases where prejudice is rampant, it really irritates me how some people can truly call themselves in "sales". You are trying to sell. It doesn't matter how much, every customer is important. You piss a customer off, they NEVER go back. Even if they can afford to buy things there, you have completely tainted the brand in their mind.

The idea of pre-judgment is talked about in Malcolm Gladwell's book, "Blink". People make snap judgments about others all the time. The case that Gladwell talks about is in car sales. Salesmen will often ignore younger customers because they assume they are not serious about buying or even have the necessary resources to purchase. This type of prejudice is what kills the customer experience. What if that younger customer is rich? What if the teenager is checking out what car to tell their parent to buy for them? Maybe, the salesperson think that person who in cheap clothing will just be a waste of time. But you have to consider the fact that some people may not dress nice because they'd rather spend it on big ticket items.

This type of problem occurs more often in stores with expensive products targeted towards consumers who are more affluent.
Prejudice is a fact of life, but how it affects your actions is up to you. To be a good salesperson, or yet, any type of representative for a company, there are a simple set of rules. The following set of rules exemplify the qualities of an excellent customer experience.
3) Preach your brand: Always make sure you're representing the best face for the company. Believe in your products and be honest. [You solidify your company/brand. The customer will have the idea that your products are of superior quality.]

2) Every person is a prospective customer: Each person is different. They have different needs and treat each accordingly. You don't know anything about them, so ask them and listen. [You satisfy their needs. The more you know about the customer, the more you can help them and offer a solution.]

1) The customer is always right. ALWAYS: Just because something isn't in your job description doesn't mean you couldn't do it. They know what they want. Option A, deliver what they want. Option B, agree that what they want is reasonable but it is out of your hands. (This obviously ignores the situation of those customers who are just unreasonable, but seriously, most things people ask for are not that difficult). All people want is to be treated fairly and if you give them that, they will always come back. [This is basic - if you go beyond the call of duty, they will know it and you will have earned a customer for life]

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Choice of words

Everyone communicates to each other every day. We talk, send e-mails, text messages, letters, and other various methods. Through our words, we share our ideas. With our ideas and words, we also evoke and elicit emotion.

When was the last time you put thought into thinking into your choice of words? Think about the following. I was visiting a friend's place. I told her "you have a nice house", and got a generic reply of "thanks". I realized I didn't get my message across. I didn't elicit the full impact of the emotion I was feeling. I followed up again saying "I meant, you have a lovely home".

The basic difference is saying "nice house" as opposing to a "nice home". In general terms, they have the same meaning. However, saying "nice home" implies an extra level of emotion. Saying the word 'home' describes more than the physical appearance of the place, and rather talks about the warmth of the surroundings, how relaxing it is the be there, and most importantly, the hospitality of the hosts.

I'm not saying you should say 'nice home' just whenever you go to a friend's house. This is more about communicating effectively. If you feel at ease in their house, then say it, but don't just toss it around just because you can connect more easily. Be honest. Be truthful. Communicate what you truly mean by choosing your words wisely.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Social epidemics. Contagious ideas on a social market.

I have just finished listening to Malcolm Gladwell's audio book of The Tipping Point. I definitely recommend this to everyone. This is one of those books that teaches you to visualize social networks from a different perspective. It's a glimpse into realizing how certain friendships are not entirely symmetric and how it is rather a complex web that could not have formed had you not met certain people.

A few people in the world have a special social role. There are certain individuals who bind assocations between whole groups of people, they are 'connectors'. Connectors are social specialists. They know everybody, or it seems like it. They are 'social hubs' that are connecting points between many people. People 'connect' with them so easily and it seems like their network is extensive even though they may not know everyone that well. The ability to connect people is an intrinsic value of the person being likable. The theory of connectors falls along Gladwell's concept of 'interactional synchrony', paired with the pattern of 'rhythmic physical dimension'. I believe that people have their own frequencies, like physical objects, where we all radiate at a certain rhythm. For example, people who talk fast, will probably get along with others who talk fast as well. Some people just 'click' with some people and not get along with others. Connectors seem to transcend that and just 'click' with everyone. Gladwell notes that being socially likable to be an intrinsic trait. If we are not a connector, can we change our physical appearance, attitude, or social behaviour to become one?

The Tipping Point assigns two other social types of people, 'maven' and 'salesmen'. Mavens are classified as information specialists and brokers that help to spread and disseminate information and knowledge. In a sense, everyone is a maven because we are all connected to our own subcultures. However, the mavens that the book describes is about the mavens who share knowledge about something that will affect the general population. A new technology, product, or idea that has the ability to be trendy or innovative. Salesmen on the other hand are the natural leaders. They are people you would follow even without rational reason. They are charismatic and persuasive without effort.

These three social types are the central structure of what creates 'social epidemics'. "The Law of the Few" as explained by the book, depends on this small set of people with the particular set of social skills that they possess. These people, the 'epidemic set' are able to create an overwhelming influence over a large group of people very quickly. The result of transmitting ideas through these people is what are called 'social epidemics'.

Social epidemics are ideas that normally would not create any type of shock wave. However, if the idea is transmitted through the 'epidemic set', it will set off a chain reaction and propel the idea into the mass population at an exponential rate. An epidemic of social proportions. This is similar to a video going 'viral'. Social epidemics works on the same principles of contagion and viral epidemics and outbreaks. It is the dissemination of a disease or idea into the general population and infects and only accelerates as it progresses.

The most common modern examples of social epidemics are fads. Fashion trends that only last for a small amount of time. With the modern transition into the communication age and the Internet, the most visible examples of social epidemics that occur on a daily basis are created by sites like Digg and StumbleUpon. These are concepts brought to a central hub (the website) and creates an artificial connector.

The use of Twitter is also, but not exactly an example of a social epidemic, but rather a visualization of the epidemic happening in real time. Tweets going out every second and every minute infect their ideas to the people following the person making the tweet. The followers then also send their own response and infect it to their own followers and etcetera. Infecting ad infinitum. The social epidemic can now be seen in its raw form.

Now that we understand how these social epidemics are created, is it possible to leverage this knowledge to create it? As far as we've seen, most social epidemics are random and occur based off a few people willing to try it. But what if you had an idea, or a product. Assume you are the maven, can you access a small set of connectors and salesmen and somehow boost your product into popularity?